MALAYSIA RAMADHAN VIBES IS NO MORE

The first COVID-19 case reported on 25 January 2020 in Malaysia, the case showed an increment with 552 cases on 16 Mac. Since few countries have been lockdown due to increment cases, Prime Minister of Malaysia Tan Sri Muhyiddin Yassin had announced the Restricted Movement Control (RMO) or Perintah Kawalan Pergerakkan (PKP) to control the spreads of the disease.  The RMO/ PKP leading of people's life to stay at home except for essential services that remain operates and the total days of being lockdown in Malaysia contain 4 stages: 1) 18-31 March, 2) 1-14 April, 3) 15-28 April, 4) 29 April - 14 Mei.  

Without Muslim people realized while the ongoing of RMO/ PKP, 24 April is the official date on welcoming Ramdhan Al-Bubaraq. It's a quite tough to the people who are in the businesses sector on selling baju raya, kasut raya and all raya stuff and of course affected to the people who always set up to open small businesses (which the only medium to earn more money) on selling a variety of foods in Bazar Ramadhan once a year. 

COMMON RAMADHAN CULTURE IN MALAYSIA

The common view that always found during Ramadhan culture is the line of tents with a variety of foods and beverages under it and a crowd of people that busy as a bee which looking for iftar meals to bring home.

Some prefer to buy meals and do an iftar at any place that convenient to sit and eat. Mostly there are selected places they dealing to iftar together as bunch of groups. But some are at any restaurant and hotel. But it always depends on people for their purposed

Tarawih prayer is not a culture but is a must thing to do during Ramadhan season, which only performs in Ramadhan month once in a year. It brings all Muslim people to gather in Masjid/ Mosque to berjemaah/ congregation after Isya' prayer. Ramadhan months are known as a powerful month whereas your pahala/ rewards given as double. 

But, since the RMO/ PKP are not allow people to gather even for Tarawih prayer, everybody (Muslim people) is being advised to do all the amalan/ practices at home. This might be a painful Ramadhan that ever happen in Malaysia or World history among Muslim people out there. By the time, as a Muslim there's no excuse to do amalan/ practices, as long as it's the holy month and people should grab the opportunity to focus in ibadah/ worship also to pray for COVID-19 end. 

Ujian tanda Allah sayang, Allah 'tegur' melalui ujian untuk kembali dan dekat pada Dia semula

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TERIMA KASIH. SEMOGA BERMANFAAT

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EX BF/GF KORANG SIHAT?

Uishhh, talking about 'boyfriend/ girlfriend' ni, kalau cakap dalam kelas budak darjah 2, semua confirm F-O-K-U-S. Have you guys been experienced having a boyfriend/ girlfriend more than 2 times or more? or not yet? 

💔How many penny had you spent on dating? including the present, anniversary, foods, random gift, and so on?

💔How much time did you westing on the whole relationship that never works?

💔How many pieces your heart had broken after the decision made to break the relationship? 

💔How many times you think how stupid you were to be with him/ her?

💔How many times you think of getting back?

💔And... do you still hate him/ her even the story was a long ago?

These 6 questions probably have the answer, you gais know.

This random question is quite familiar to everyone who once fell in love with someone they had loved before. What your current feeling? do you happy to see him/ her happy?

After so many girls conversation I have had made with my friends, some are quite serious about forgetting even it has been a few years and maybe the scars or 'memories that built'. But some are okay and surrender to 'let it go', and some are thinking of the previous BF/GF were much better than current relationship even planning to get back. It depends. Something that playing with the heart truthfully mind questioning kan. Perhaps it was bothering you in a certain time. 

As a humankind, I also feel the same for the questions above. But as we are growing adult and these are just a lessons in life and I'm okay to see them (amboi them macam ramai je). Paling-paling pun nak sedapkan hati kita akan cakap 'nasib baik aku bukan dengan dia'😂. But the other positivity side, just remembers this "someone whom were passing by through your life is just a lesson that needs to be learned". He/ She kan is someone we shared our heart feeling before, maybe gone thru ups and downs in life. Let them remain a friend to you and you can say hello when you meet and Goodbye when you left. 

Apparently, sometimes the negativity is still there, come on we are human but to push the feeling away from the mind is to talk to the self and think on how you should be grateful to say to Allah that you are now walking on your beautiful journey even better. People!, let the color of your life shows the beauty okay! Just live your life wonderfully, memories let be just a memories, we pray for their happiness and it may return to you too!

I personally happy to see them, because they 'were' my happy pills. Ada yang tengah in serious relationship (ni a guy masa cinta tak cukup sifat), ada yang dah kahwin (A guy that suggested by friend) dan ada yang dah tunang (Ni a guy masa jodoh pilihan keluarga). See kalau ditakdirkan tu bukan jodoh korang how serious the relationship get along tak akan menang dengan kuasa Allah. But if you gais are plan to married to the one you love now, percaya pada kuasa Doa sebab Allah tak akan sia-siakan hambanya kan? Ingat ya para hadirin sekalian, setiap pertemuan sesungguhnya atas izin Allah SWT. Allah pertemukan mamat/ minah A tak semestinya depa jodoh cuols, mungkin anda kena jumpa mamat/ minah C, D,E,F barulahhh yang G jodoh anda. 

And me? of course keep my wings high for my parents, maybe this is what Allah wanted me to do so. since i am the only daughter dan anak sulong pulak tu. just sangka yang baik pada Allah kawan-kawan sebab Dia sebaik-baik perancang. 

Yang penting! doalah agar Allah SWT hadirkan anda pasangan yang baik agama akhlaknya. Kalau rasa tak baik pun tak apa, sama-sama bercita-cita mencari CINTA ALLAH 💓

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TERIMA KASIH. SEMOGA BERMANFAAT

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Terima kasih Universiti Kebangsaan Malaysia!

Selepas saja menamatkan pengajian di peringkat Sijil Tinggi Peperiksaan Malaysia (STPM) pada tahun 2014, Alhamdulilah aku mendapat tawaran belajar ke peringkat Ijazah Sarjana Muda Sains Sosial dengan Kepujian Antropologi & Sosiologi di Universiti Kebangsaan Malaysia (UKM). Boleh dikatakan masa isi UPU, hampir semua Universiti Awam (UA) di seluruh Malaysia kos ni dipilh aku termasuk Sabah & Sarawak. Untuk pengetahuan, kos Antropologi & Sosiologi di UKM ada ujian saringan ‘sesi interview’ menerusi youtube. Maknanya selepas kau apply samada kau diterima atau tidak untuk ke sesi interview, lepas lulus interview baru kau dapat offer letter dari UKM. 

Alhamdulillah, aku klasifikasikan diri aku menjalani kehidupan sebagai mahasiswa seperti "lauk secukup rasa", ada manis, pahit, masam, masin semua di UKM. Tapi sebenarnya itulah yang membuatkan diri kau semakin berkualiti dalam menimba pengalaman hidup, yang baik diteruskan, yang tidak baik dijadikan pengajaran hidup.

G-day: 11.11.18

'PENDAULAT AMANAH NEGARA’ (slogan UKM favourite aku)

Bagi aku, bila diberi peluang atau rezq untuk belajar ke peringkat 'Degree' apatah lagi diterima masuk UKM yang mana merupakan antara TOP Universiti di Malaysia, aku betul-betul ambil peluang EXLPORE UKM dengan baik. Aku 'dare'  untuk menceburi pelbagai bidang, 1) Sukan, 2) Kepimpinan, 3) Kesenian, 4) Keagamaan, 5) Sukarelwan, pendek kata sema benda nak masuk. But I wish I can tell you gais on how I manage all these things during my study, my everyday rountine, memang exhausted but you will satisfied with the result soon when it all finished. Banyak aku explore sepanjang aku di UKM. It all worth! aku tak dapat dean list, tak cemerlang pun but I manage my study (3.45) & curriculum well so far in UKM, Alhamdulillah Ya Allah 💖

Yang penting!! JANGAN IKUT KAWAN! Do whatever make yourself upgrade to another level, *you muda lagi dik.. First year sem 1 di Universiti aku mengakui memang banyak berjalan secara berkumpulan ke sana ke sini, mungkin sebab tak tahu selok belok UKM lagi, tapi dah sem 2 memang kau kena berdiri atas kaki kau sendiri, no matter what!

Apa yang aku cakap dengan diri aku: “Ain Shafiqah, you do all these thing because YOU WANT TO BE DIFFERENT THAN YOUR PAST”. Apa yang telah aku explore di UKM sepanjang 3 tahun di sana secara tidak langsung it sharpen my soft skills & social skills level, I guarantee with what I had learned from UKM, it will bring me successful in the future and alhamdulillah so far after my graduation I living my life amazingly for what I am to be, hasil didikan UKM (terima kasih UKM)

Bukan UKM je, Universiti lain juga. Remember ya adik-adik. UNIVERISITI DAH SEDIAKAN SESUATU YANG VALUABLE FOR US, BUT IT ALL ABOUT YOU ON HOW TO GRAB THEM! 

Nasihat sis as kakak-kakak la ya.. Berpuluh ribu yang apply kos di Univerisiti/ Kolej awak, tapi awak terpilih among that 10,000 people (1:10), please jadikanlah awak yang terpilih belajar dekat Universiti/ Kolej ni whatever course pun, gunakan rezq ni sebaik mungkin. You are the chosen one dik! amanah Tuhan bagi untuk you berjaya. Jadi tolonglah, jadikan Universiti/ Kolej satu medium untuk jadi you hebat. But my advise, dont compare your hebat dengan your other friends out there, but compare yourself to your old verison, your past. Kalau dulu kau tak pandai menari, tiba-tiba dekat Univerisiti/ Kolej kau pandai menari pulak dik, so hebat la tu bukan? 

Memandangkan mulut akk ni selalu masin 😋, akk doakan sesiapa yang berjaya menjumpai blog ni dan baca entry ni dipermudahkan urusan hidup dan berjaya dibidang yang diceburi, aamiin 💘

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TERIMA KASIH. SEMOGA BERMANFAAT

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Jaga hubungan baik dengan ibu bapa

Dulu kalau tak dapat keluar dengan kawan-kawan sampai bergaduh dengan parent terutamanya ibu. Berjanji keluar dengan kawan tapi last minute cancel sebab ibu/ ayah ajak keluar atau lain-lain family matters. Some point diri sendri dah rasa terbiasa atau (mungkin sebab dah dewasa?) sebab dah nampak kesan menghormati dan mendengar kata parent terutamanya seorang ibu, urusan hidup dunia akan memang dipermudahkan. Tak ada yang sia-sia sebenarnya bila kita dahulukan parent/ family. 

1. Utamakan mereka

2. Jaga perasaan mereka

3. Minta maaf dengan mereka kalau buat salah

4. Bahagiakan mereka, bergurau, bermanja

5. Paling penting - Jujur dan jangan menipu dengan mereka!

Percayalah akan ada kemanisan yang Allah SWT beri. Nikmatnya diri sendiri akan rasa Allah SWT permudahkan urusan hidup. Walau susah sekali pun sesuatu perkara, akan ada je bantuan/ solusi yang Dia hadirkan. Tak rugi pun kita berbuat baik kepada kedua orang tua kita, tak terbalas jasa mereka membesarkan kita. Tak percaya? Cuba sendiri, lalui sendiri. Tak rugi apa-apa pun buat baik dengan ibu ayah.

Kalau orang cakap "Ala, aku tak biasa laa, dari kecil bukan aku rapat pun dengan dorang, tak biasa malu laa, macam pelik je".

Jawapan:

Kita ni anak, taraf mana kita sebagai anak dengan ibu ayah kita? Mestilah kita kena bertindak dan mulakan. Lagi satu itu adalah tanggungjawab kita sebagai seorang anak.

Saja nak kongsikan sesi memujuk ibu waktu gaduh, walaupun kau rasa bukan salah kau, mengalah jela 👅

Tak ada alasan yang paling kuat atau hebat untuk tidak menyayangi kedua orang tua kita, jahat mana mereka, silap mana mereka, benci mana mereka pada kita, kita ni anak mereka tetap diberikan tanggungjawab oleh Dia untuk melakukan kebaikan pada mereka

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TERIMA KASIH. SEMOGA BERMANFAAT

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